More on our Lenten meat fast
I've never attempted to be vegetarian, but nor am I especially carnivorous. In fact, I find nothing appetizing about a steak or a roast; big slabs of meat kind of gross me out. At the same time, I really like most vegetables. I eat vegetarian meals regularly, though not exclusively, simply out of preference. So I didn't think skipping meat two days a week would be particularly difficult - or even different - and I liked the reasons for doing it. I agreed to participate without hesitation.
And this is where the role of meat in my life and culture began asserting itself. I myself had no hesitation about an experiment in vegetarianism. Not so my family. I am the primary meal-maker in the house, and there was swift resistance to the idea of several weeks of a vegetarian menu. Not keen on preparing different food for myself and them, we agreed on the two-day-a-week plan. Lesson one: there is social pressure for me to eat meat, even in my own home. Or maybe especially there, since unlike a restaurant, we don't each get exactly what we want every meal. My choices are tied to the choices of others.
I'm also learning that meat can be difficult to avoid. Compared to much of the world, meat here is cheap and plentiful, and therefore ubiquitous. It is on offer everywhere I go, and often, it's no more expensive than non-meat choices. Last Wednesday, I consciously looked for vegetarian choices on a menu and discovered that there weren't many. Lesson two: meaty meals can be easier to obtain than vegetarian ones. There's a cultural expectation and incentive to eat meat every day.
Then there's the challenge of remembering what day it is. It was sheer luck that I didn't eat meat yesterday. At lunchtime, I opened the refrigerator and saw some leftover soup. I considered it, but decided that a leftover beet burger sounded better, so I had that instead. It wasn't until I started thinking about dinner that I realized it was Wednesday and I almost ate Southwestern Chicken soup for lunch. Lesson three: when you live surrounded by a wide variety of plentiful food, it's easy to be careless about what you eat.
All of this awareness in only a week! It'll be interesting to see what else we learn - both individually and as a group - by the time Easter rolls around.
Labels: ELCA World Hunger, environment, food, hunger, Lent
1 Comments:
Greetings,
This Lenten meat fast has been a reflective experience for me. I, like Nancy, wasn't a big meat eater, but decided to abstain entirely from meat this season. My secondary commitment was to really focus on eating to sustain myself, and not giving in to that pressure to eat because the food is plentiful. I thought it would be relatively easy.
Instead of being easy, it has been very thought provoking. I am blatantly aware of how much I grabbed my meals out of convenience [and peer pressure] The hardest is going without food when there are no meatless choices, and everyone around you is eating. It can be awkward and uncomfortable yet I am keenly aware that this is by choice for me, and for others it is a day after day existence.
To add to the impact, is the fact that a friend who is a pastor in Haiti, and has lived there his whole life is staying with me while we go to churches to talk about the poverty and needs in his country. I have decided that the only thing that has been more life changing for me than visiting Haiti to see how the people live there is spending two weeks in the United States seeing my life through the eyes of a Haitian. I may give up meat for good.
Peace and blessings,
Mary
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